Late to wedding reddit

We have acquaintances we would have liked to invite, but at some point you have to draw the line. Some of FH's family waited until 2 weeks after RSVP deadline to finally tell us they weren't coming. That cleared up like 8 spots. We extended the invite to our distant friends and were honest about the situation.

Im starting to freak out that our invitations are being sent too late and it will be rude to our guests (and cause a lot of “no”s had we sent earlier). For context: the wedding is September 10, 2022. We sent out save the dates in February. I’m pretty much planning the whole thing by myself, my fiancé was super helpful in the beginning. Take a seat in the back row and be careful not to disturb any other guests or get in the way of the photographer or videographer. Being late is enough of a wedding faux pas, but getting the whole.